Saskatoon teen faces bullying after meeting Bieber
Natalia Betancourt's dream has now turned into a
nightmare.
The 17-year-old girl from Saskatoon says she's been the victim
of bullying for much of her life but this week is off the charts.
It's
been her goal for the last six years to meet Justin Bieber, a feat she
accomplished at his concert on Tuesday with a backstage pass.
The next
day, @SaskatoonSays - a stranger to Betancourt - posted "was @natbetancourt the
only girl we could get to represent Saskatoon to Justin Bieber last night?
#sorrybieber #shouldbesomeonehot.
Betancourt said she was Tweeting and
using Facebook to show her excitement leading up to the concert.
In turn,
she received hateful message.
"Really, really hurtful things," said
Betancourt, in tears.
She posted a self-portrait with her backstage pass.
Someone commented with an emoticon face and a gun pointing to its
head.
She received tweets like:
"I wonder what it feels like to
spend 800$ on someone who is not going to remember you? @natbetancourt??"
"I think I'm just as excited for Justin Bieber as @natbetancourt cause
then I won't have to a read countless tweets about it #noteven going"
"@natbetancourt he won't remember you"
Betancourt opened up in a
Facebook post saying she wanted the bullying to stop. She received a text
message from a girl that reads, "So personally I don't think you were
'cyberbullied.' There's kids starving in Africa your complaints are so petty and
such a first world problem. Be grateful for what you have and stop playing the
victim card."
Marianne Betancourt, her mother, contacted the
girl.
"I told her that her messages are going to stop to my daughter that
day. I asked her if she knew what bullying was and she never answered me. She
thought all those comments were to be funny. Everybody thought it was joke.
Nobody thought that it was hurtful," said Marianne.
Betancourt said she's
not second-guessing that the comments were a joke. When the remarks hurt the
person they are directed toward, it's not funny, she said.
"I know what
bullying is. Clearly she doesn't if she doesn't think it is bullying," said
Betancourt, adding if people didn't like her posts they had the option to
unfollow or unfriend her.
A friend and former co-worker of Natalia's, Ang
Marklinger, said she is inspired by Betancourt's strength. Marklinger was a
victim of bullying in high school and says she felt as helpless as the
Betancourt family does right now.
"My family didn't know what to do
either. All they could do was put their arms around me and squeeze me as hard as
I could until I stopped crying," said Marklinger.
"I don't understand why
it had to be taken to the extreme that it has … as a friend and as someone who
has been there before it's extremely irritating."
Marianne said she's at
the point right now where she doesn't know where to turn. She has documented
most of the bullying taking place. She contemplated taking Natalia's cell phone
and computer away, but says in the digital age we live in, it would be
impossible to expect her daughter to live without them.
"They don't get
it. These kids don't get it. They don't know what bullying is," she
said.
kyeske@rawlco.com
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